Get Queerty Daily Subscribe to Queerty for a daily dose of life firstdate firstdates stories and more. When I tell straight people I met a guy on Grindrtheir response every time is: "isn't that just for hooking up? OMG, check!!! Drinks might be an obvious first date, but a cocktail bar will I m gay and was on a first date with you time and space to talk in a pleasant setting.
I can think of many, many times when there was a yellow flag right there in the beginning but the guy was attractive and I so very much needed to be wanted that I looked past it.
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Some guys haven't even come out despite them going on dates, which makes a whole other mess of awkward.
Thankfully, there's the standing rule to just kind of ignore each other and pretend like the whole thing never happened. Latest on Queerty. That's weird. If your guy or you pitch this classic phrase, and you're both down, go ahead and have a good night together.
The same goes for all the gay dudes who go to clubs in the Village, or hit up sites ManHunt or the like. Well I guess if you wanted to put a fresh dog shit in your mouth there would be some guys who would dive in for a piece of that too. I declined. It is totally normal to be anxious before any date — this one even more so.
Having fixed ideas of what you want — which usually boil down to looks and little else — could be standing in your way of meeting some great guys.