Forget it. And then he looked at the data. I know the best thing is to move on. Masculine gay men, for their part, are more anxious, have more risky sex and use drugs and tobacco with greater frequency.
Your best bet is to drop a hint or two and see how he reacts. Marion 3 years ago Report. Do I have a chance with him? Use them well! He says he doesn't like me and that he is in love with his girlfriend, but that he won't be able to control himself if we are alone in a room.
You may still get the thoughts here and there, but you will no longer feel that you must react to them and you will be able to let them pass. I must have been six or seven. Show 25 25 50 All. By allowing the anxiety to subside on its How do I make sure gay people like me, you slowly build up your tolerance to it, and it begins to take more and more to make you anxious.
Gay people are now, depending on the study, between 2 and 10 times more likely than straight people to take their own lives. I suggest accepting this, and trying to move on.
And I want people reading my story to know that it's OK to be the person you're meant to be -- no matter what your age is when you finally get to know yourself and love who you are in the process. Any discussion of gay mental health has to start with what happens in schools.
It takes persistence and determination but it can be done.